عوامل زمينه ساز روابط فرازناشويي بر اساس منابع اسلامي

Predisposing Factors of marital infidelity based on Islamic sources

ازﺟﻤﻠﻪ ﻣﺸﮑﻼت روﺑﻪ اﻓﺰاﯾﺶ در ﺧﺎﻧﻮادهﻫﺎ ﮐﻪ آﺳﯿﺐﻫﺎ و ﭘﯿﺎﻣـﺪﻫﺎي زﯾـﺎنﺑـﺎري دارد، رواﺑـﻂ ﻓﺮازﻧﺎﺷـﻮﯾﯽ اﺳﺖ. ﻫﺪف از اﯾﻦ ﭘﮋوﻫﺶ، ﺑﺮرﺳﯽ ﻋﻮاﻣﻞ زﻣﯿﻨﻪﺳﺎز رواﺑﻂ ﻓﺮازﻧﺎﺷـﻮﯾﯽ ﺑـﺮ اﺳـﺎس ﻣﻨـﺎﺑﻊ اﺳـﻼﻣﯽ اﺳـﺖ. روش ﭘــﮋوﻫﺶ، ﺗﻮﺻــﯿﻔﯽ از ﻧــﻮع ﺗﺤﻠﯿــﻞ ﻣﺤﺘــﻮا اﺳــﺖ. واﺣــﺪ ﺗﺤﻠﯿــﻞ در اﯾــﻦ ﺗﺤﻘﯿــﻖ، ﺟﻤــﻼت، و اژهﻫــﺎ و ﻣﻮﺿﻮﻋﺎت اﺳﺖ و اﻃﻼﻋﺎت از ﻃﺮﯾﻖ ﻣﺮاﺟﻌـﻪ ﺑـﻪ ﻗـﺮآن ﮐـﺮﯾﻢ و ﻣﺘـﻮن رواﯾـﯽ و ﻧﯿـﺰ ﻣﻘـﺎﻻت، ﭘﺎﯾـﺎنﻧﺎﻣـﻪﻫـﺎ، ﮐﺘﺎبﻫﺎ، ﺳﺎﯾﺖﻫﺎ و ﻧﺮماﻓﺰارﻫﺎي ﻣﺨﺘﻠـﻒ در اﯾـﻦ زﻣﯿﻨـﻪ ﺑـﻪ دﺳـﺖ آﻣـﺪه اﺳـﺖ. ﻧﺘـﺎﯾﺞ اﯾـﻦ ﺗﺤﻘﯿـﻖ ﻧﺸـﺎن ﻣﯽدﻫﺪ ﮐﻪ ﻋﻮاﻣﻞ ﻣﺨﺘﻠﻔﯽ در وﻗﻮع رواﺑﻂ ﻓﺮازﻧﺎﺷﻮﯾﯽ ﻣﺆﺛﺮ اﺳﺖ. اﯾﻦ ﻋﻮاﻣﻞ را ﻣﯽﺗﻮان ﺑﻪ ﻋﻮاﻣـﻞ ﻓـﺮدي، ﺧﺎﻧﻮادﮔﯽ و اﺟﺘﻤﺎﻋﯽ ﺗﻘﺴﯿﻢ ﮐﺮد. ﻋﻮاﻣـﻞ زﻣﯿﻨـﻪﺳـﺎز ﻓـﺮدي رواﺑـﻂ ﻓﺮازﻧﺎﺷـﻮﯾﯽ ﻋﺒـﺎرتاﻧـﺪ از: ﺿـﻌﻒ در اﯾﻤﺎن، ﻋﻔﯿﻒ ﻧﺒﻮدن، ﺑﯽﻏﯿﺮﺗﯽ، ﺗﺠﺮﺑﻪ رواﺑﻂ ﻧﺎﻣﺸﺮوع )ﻗﺒﻞ از ازدواج ﯾﺎ ﺑﻌﺪ از ازدواج(، ﭘﯿﺮوي از دﺷـﻤﻨﺎن اﻫﻞﺑﯿﺖ:، ﻣﯿﺨﻮارﮔﯽ )ﻧﻮﺷﯿﺪن ﺷﺮاب( و ﻏﻨـﺎ )ﻣﻮﺳـﯿﻘﯽ ﺣـﺮام(. ﻋﻮاﻣـﻞ زﻣﯿﻨـﻪﺳـﺎز ﺧـﺎﻧﻮادﮔﯽ رواﺑـﻂ ﻓﺮازﻧﺎﺷﻮﯾﯽ ﻋﺒﺎرتاﻧﺪ از: ﺑﺪﺑﯿﻨﯽ و ﻏﯿﺮت ﻧﺎﺑﻪﺟﺎ، ﻧﺎرﺿﺎﯾﺘﯽ ﺟﻨﺴﯽ و ﻧﺎرﺿﺎﯾﺘﯽ ﻋﺎﻃﻔﯽ. ﻋﻮاﻣﻞ زﻣﯿﻨﻪﺳـﺎز اﺟﺘﻤﺎﻋﯽ رواﺑﻂ ﻓﺮازﻧﺎﺷﻮﯾﯽ ﻋﺒﺎرتاﻧﺪ از: ﺧﯿﺎﻧﺖ ﺑﻪ دﯾﮕﺮان و دوﺳﺘﯽ ﯾﺎ ﻫﻢﻧﺸﯿﻨﯽ ﺑﺎ اﻓﺮاد ﺧﯿﺎﻧﺖﮐﺎر.

Marital infidelity is one of the problems that is increasing in families and has harmful consequences and outcomes. The purpose of this study is to investigate the predisposing factors of marital infidelity based on Islamic sources. The research method is descriptive content analysis. The unit of analysis in this research is sentences, words and topics and information that have been obtained by referring to the Holy Quran, Hadith books, articles, dissertations, books, web-sites, and various soft-wares in this field. The results of this study show that various factors are effective in the occurrence of marital infidelity. These factors can be divided into individual, family and social factors. Predisposing individual factors of marital infidelity are: weakness in faith, lack of chastity, lack of zeal, experience of illegitimate relationships (before or after marriage), obedience to the enemies of the Ahl al-Bayt (PBUT), drinking, and music. Predisposing family factors for marital infidelity include misplaced suspicion and jealousy, sexual dissatisfaction, and affective dissatisfaction. Predisposing social factors of marital infidelity include: disloyalty to others and friendship or companionship with unfaithful people.