عوامل تقويت مدارا در خانواده از ديدگاه آيات و روايات

Strengthening Tolerant factors in the Family from the View of the Quran Verses and Islamic Traditions

مدارا از مهم ترين عوامل تحكيم خانواده و از مصاديق بارز حسن خلق مي باشد. در طول زندگي مشترك، ممكن است اعضاي خانواده داراي شرايط يا صفات خاصي باشند كه تحمل آن براي طرف مقابل امكان پذير نباشد. در اين شرايط آنچه مي تواند تداوم زندگي مشترك را تضمين كند، مدارا است. با توجه به ضرورت مدارا نوشتار حاضر با روش توصيفي ـ تحليلي، پس از مقدمه اي در طرح بحث، به عوامل تقويت مدارا از جمله تقويت مباني عقيدتي، توجه به منافع بلند مدت خانواده، تمرين و مراقبت، تغافل و تجاهل و درك شايسته همسر مي‌پردازد. هدف از اين مقاله، آسان شدن تحمل و بالا رفتن ظرفيت همسران در برابر ناملايمات است، تا در نتيجه آن، مدارا براي همسران امري لذت بخش شود و سلامت، سعادت و آرامش خانواده، كه در گرو مداراي همسران است فراهم گردد. The tolerance is one of the most important factor to strengthen families and it is as an instance of good mood (emotional state).During spouse life, family members may have special features or specific conditions which cannot be tolerated by others.In such circumstances, what can guarantee the continuity of the familial bond is tolerant. With respect to the necessity of tolerance, this present paper with descriptive-analytic method is going to provide strengthening tolerant factors such as the strengthening bases of the religious belief, taking notice of the long benefits of the family, exercising and attention, negligence and pretending ignorance and the proper understanding of spouses. The aim of this note is to facility tolerance and increasing highly the capacity of spouses in a bad situation and difficulties and adversities consequently tolerance of spouses becomes an enjoyable issue and provides family’s health and welfare.

The tolerance is one of the most important factor to strengthen families and it is as an instance of good mood (emotional state).During spouse life, family members may have special features or specific conditions which cannot be tolerated by others.In such circumstances, what can guarantee the continuity of the familial bond is tolerant. With respect to the necessity of tolerance, this present paper with descriptive-analytic method is going to provide strengthening tolerant factors such as the strengthening bases of the religious belief, taking notice of the long benefits of the family, exercising and attention, negligence and pretending ignorance and the proper understanding of spouses. The aim of this note is to facility tolerance and increasing highly the capacity of spouses in a bad situation and difficulties and adversities consequently tolerance of spouses becomes an enjoyable issue and provides family’s health and welfare